How to Perform Cunnilingus

. Here are some tried and true tips for before, during and after performing cunnilingus:

Share a shower together before you begin so neither of you have to worry about possible unpleasant tastes or odors.
Ask your partner what she likes. At the very least, she can say things like "harder" or "slower" or "more circles."
Fill your own mouth with saliva first. Never touch or lick the clitoris with a dry finger or tongue.
Know where the clitoris is but don't dive straight for it. First try gentle kissing and licking around the upper thighs and vulva.
Tell her how good she looks, smells and tastes.
Think variety. If you repeat the same motion, your partner may become temporarily insensitive to it, so be sure to vary your stimulation.
Let your hands roam. As she becomes more aroused, insert a finger or two into her vagina.
Some women like to have a finger gently inserted into their anus. If she doesn't like it, don't do it.
Continue to fondle and hold her as she orgasms and after.
The clitoris has more nerve endings than the entire head of the penis. Be gentle.
Unlike men, many women enjoy strong stimulation while having an orgasm. Keep it going until she asks you to stop.