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Just honey, whip crème, chocolate syrup, you and your lover!Slathering yourself and your lover in cake, honey, whip crème, cookie dough, chocolate syrup or ice cream can be a blast! But if you are a woman, or having sex with a woman, it's important to remember that sugar should not go inside her vagina. Sugar can throw off her natural Ph balance and lead to infection. And everyone knows a vaginal infection will ruin all your fun. Sloppy, sticky food sex is fun!but taje care.
If you or your partner has been thinking about introducing a new element into your sexual relationship, it's important to talk about it before you enact it. Make sure you both want to try the "something new." Talk about what will be involved, how far you will pursue your fantasy, the particulars, and anything else you can think of. If your partner seems interested, even aroused, you are both ready to do it. If your partner is still hesitant or unhappy, you need to talk more before you begin. You might try sharing an erotic film or book with your lover to see if he or she also finds it arousing.
- Fantasy & Role Play Have you ever wanted to act out one of your fantasies? French maid with disgruntled employer? Nurse and patient? Do it! Acting out your fantasies is an extremely healthy way to explore your sexual life. Role playing, taking on the persona of a different person, is essential to fantasy; by taking on a different role, we free ourselves of our "normal" boundaries, and helps us to discover new things about ourselves. Start by following the ground rules outlined in "Ground Rules for Exploring Fantasies" and go from there.
- Shaving More and more people are becoming fascinated with shaving, the practice of shaving your partner's pubic hair; either shaping it into different shapes or removing it completely. Don't knock it until you try it! Shaving is an easy, safe and temporary way to begin exploring different forms of sexual play. Checkout our "Erotic Shaving" article to learn ways to do it safely in the privacy of your home.
- Bondage & Domination Once thought of as "advanced" sexual play, formerly "mainstream" couples are beginning to experiment with light forms of bondage and domination. Think about it -- have you ever tied up your lover? You've tried B&D! Many people also enjoy slipping a blindfold over their lover's eyes during love play, or even lightly spanking their partner's rump with a slapper or hairbrush.
If you're interested in exploring light B&D, you might consider trying our Sweet Surrender , which includes a blindfold, restraints for wrists or ankles and a feather tickler. Remember to follow the ground rules outlined in "Ground Rules for Exploring Fantasies" , and have fun!