As a woman do you have a hard time to maintain social contacts and establish balanced relationships? Sometimes the problem might be low self-esteem?
You may find it unlikely, but low self-esteem projects itself. If you don't feel good about yourself, the other people will not be interested in you.
If you believe you’re good person who tries to help you male partner, that’s a start to keep going. Look to yourself for your good qualities and feel good about yourself for those things.
If you respect your own abilities, more likely you’re going to be noticed by men. In a real life only bold and confident women get males attention. Human nature demands to love and to be liked, but you also have to find your way to make yourself unique and interesting person. It's easier than you'd think to restart your social life.